Conquering benchophobia!
October 20th, 2008 - byThis is not to say that it needs to be your friend all four or five years. Actually, it definitely shouldn’t be your friend for your entire college career. Let me explain.
A couple of weeks ago, I talked about my recent discovery of “divisiononeitis” — the intense desire most student-athletes have to play at a NCAA Div. I institution. Today, I want to focus on another syndrome: benchophobia.
Benchophobia means exactly what it sounds like – a fear of the bench, or more specifically, a fear of sitting on the bench.
Of course, this is understandable. Every student-athlete who wants to play college athletics actually wants to play. Your position is guard or tight end or libero or attackman or shortstop. Your position is not benchwarmer.
Here’s the thing, though – college athletics is a whole new ballgame. You’re now playing with players who could be three years older than you, but who also have the benefit of playing in college for three years longer than you. That means that you might not automatically get the chance to get on the field or the court right away.
But that’s not necessarily a bad thing. College sports are a lot different from high schools sports. You’ll have to adjust to different practices, plays, formations, signals and pressure. And often times, “different” translates to “more intense and more complex.”
So, practicing with a team but not getting a whole lot of playing time, or even possibly having to redshirt, shouldn’t be looked upon as the worst thing in the world. It gives you a year or so to make the adjustment from high school to college (and that includes school as well), so when you take over as a full-time starter or start to see significant playing time, you’re a lot more acclimated to the college game and the college curriculum.
Don’t fear the bench, but don’t get too comfortable either. They’re made out of wood or aluminum for a reason …

So, more and more, students and parents are trying to obtain athletic scholarships to pay for some, if not all, of little Timmy’s college education. Unfortunately, there’s not enough scholarships to go around for every single person wanting to participate in college athletics. That’s why it’s so important to tackle the recruiting process in the
How does this relate to college athletics? Well, no matter where you play, what level you play at or how good you team is in college, there are always going to be fans who will look up to you. When these players didn’t even acknowledge the fans as they drove off, I really lost some respect for them — I imagine the kids did as well.
It’s the hottest trend in college recruiting: Committing early to play at a college.
information. Tom Savage, who I referred to earlier, will probably have a great career with the Scarlet Knights and chose a solid school. But in the article I read about him (see the link above), he tells the story of sitting at a Rutgers game and seeing the head coach turn around and wink at him just before kickoff. At that moment, he says, he knew he wanted to be a Scarlet Knight. Did he make a good decision? Only time will tell. The Rutgers football program, and their staff, is top notch. I just hope the school, the area and the academic offerings are a good fit for this promising prospect.