3 Things Parents Should Do
September 14th, 2008 - by
by Chris Krause, NCSA Founder and President
Parents who feel like they are “on the outside looking in” when it comes to seeing their son or daughter go through the recruiting process have great opportunities to be a huge help.
So why do we hear horror story after horror story about over-bearing parents (who do more harm than good) instead of real-life examples of moms and dads who give their child the edge in the whole recruiting process?
In my years working with parents and athletes to help them understand and navigate the confusing maze that is college sports scholarships, I’ve found that it’s usually the little things that tend to separate the good examples from the bad ones. What I mean by that is parents have the ability to do some simple things that add up to big advantages for their son or daughter.
Here’s a list of some of the “difference makers” I’ve seen over the years that I would classify as being important things every parent can do to help give their child the edge in the recruiting process:
BE INVOLVED IN THEIR ACADEMIC LIFE. That sounds like a no-brainer, but many parents make the mistake of sitting back and not being proactive in making sure their student-athletes are succeeding on the field, and in the classroom. Insist on academic excellence. Why is this important in recruiting? Two big reasons: First, if a student-athlete isn’t academically eligible by NCAA standards, it won’t matter how talented they are in their sport. They won’t get the chance to show their stuff at the college level. Secondly, solid academic performances show college coaches that they can juggle the demands of both school and sports, which is vital at the next level. College coaches don’t want to have to baby-sit their athletes and make sure that they stay out of trouble and do their college school work. Show them that you are an athlete that can handle the work load that you will be given as a college athlete.
DON’T JUST SIT THERE. DO SOMETHING! Being involved is one thing. Taking action is another. If your child is struggling in school, take the lead in getting them extra help. If you can get them involved in getting extra training from a private coach or camp in your area, do it as often as you can. The point I am making here is this: Don’t be a parent who sits around and waits for someone else to come to you and your child with an offer of extra help. Go out and find it. That goes for recruiting, as well…don’t sit around waiting for colleges to come knocking on your door. Go knock on as many of their doors as possible. (Click here if you haven’t told us about your athletic ability yet). Even more importantly, parents need to make sure that they enable their son or daughter to be the one to pick up the phone and talk to a coach, or email a coach, themselves. Coaches want to hear from the athletes they are recruiting, not the athlete’s parent. Be proactive!
GET YOUR CHILD TO START THINKING ABOUT COLLEGE NOW! One of our trained staff of former college athletes and coaches came to me with a story late last Spring about the parent of a student-athlete who was a Senior in high school. The athlete had been on a state championship basketball team and was a solid student. But in focusing on all of the good things that were going on in the here and now, he and his parents had done little to prepare for the next level: College. Every family of a high school athlete should be talking about, and looking at, college options. I think that prospects should take the SAT and ACT tests in the second half of your Junior year instead of waiting until the last minute in your Senior year (like the athlete I was just telling you about did). Be proactive in getting in front of as many coaches as possible. Apply to schools early, and keep tabs on your high school transcript throughout your high school career to ensure that you have the right classes and the right grades to make it to the next level.
Those are three simple things that almost every parent can do. The trouble is, many parents get so tied-up in the fun and excitement of their child’s high school career that they are left scratching their heads after the last prep sports season is over wondering “where do we go from here”?
So, my question for any parent reading this article is this: Are you doing everything you can for your child to prepare them for the next level?

This post will be the most incredible thing you’ve ever read.
During my evaluations, I tell the student-athletes that I want to know every thing about them as a student-athlete – any accolades, any awards, any reason why if I were a coach, I’d want to recruit them.
by Chris Krause, NCSA Founder and President
happened: That athlete has jumped ahead of the pack of other prospects on a coach’s list, and are now being called to see if they would be a good fit for that coach and his or her program.
I look up to Elena Delle Donne. Not because she was Naismith national girls high school basketball player of the year or because she’s a lot taller than me (she’s 6′5).
“One of the fundamental values of our CMU soccer family is that every player must be a complete student-athlete,” DiTucci said. “It’s not enough to only compete on the field. We hold ourselves to the highest standard off the field as well. Everyone is responsible for their part in continuing our legacy.