I’ve been getting a lot of calls recently from families complaining that they haven’t heard from any coaches. My first question to them is, “Well, have you contacted any coaches?” to which they generally reply, “Um, no. But they’re supposed to call me, right?”
The answer to that question is as simple as it is tricky - yes, coaches are supposed to contact you….if they KNOW about you. But that coach isn’t going to find out your name, your contact information, what type of player you are by divining it from the Sports Gods - they are going to get that information from YOU. Even some of the most gifted and talented athletes can be un-recruited or under-recruited, so it’s important to be proactive in contacting coaches. Coaches want and need to hear from you - just think about how many other student-athletes there are in your state, then multiply that by 50. Sometimes the coach is the only one doing the recruiting (that is often the case at smaller schools), and that’s just not enough manpower to go out and actively seek recruits.
On our Welcome Calls we emphasize the importance of being proactive in the recruiting process, but somehow I’m not sure how important our families realize that is. One of my favorite recruiting stories is not my own, but that of one of our NCSA speakers, two-time gold medal Olympian and former WNBA Sacramento Monarchs point guard Ruthie Bolton.
Ruthie spoke most recently to us at our NCSA annual meeting that we call NCSA University. I knew Ruthie had been, and most likely still is, an amazing basketball player. But her career not only got off to a rocky start, it almost didn’t happen.
To see Ruthie you would know immediately that she is an elite athlete - she has the graceful carriage of an athlete, and the muscles to go with it! She is an engaging and effervescent speaker, both enthusiastic and sincere in her manner of speaking, and it’s great fun to hear her tell her story, and to hear some of her anecdotes, some of which are hilarious. Ruthie is one of 20 children, and the daughter of a Reverend. In the beginning of her talk, Ruthie joked that her father used to call her “daughter”, instead of by her name, because he couldn’t remember which one she was!
But the most important part of Ruthie’s story is her long-running and road-bump filled basketball career. Ruthie was very close to her older sister, and growing up both she and her sister played basketball. Ruthie said that her sister was always the better player and that she had better natural ability, but Ruthie said the fact that she always worked harder and tried harder than everyone else helped bridge the gap between natural ability and learned skill.
When her sister began getting recruited by Auburn, Ruthie began to realize that basketball was more than just the sport she loved - it was a way for her to go to college. Ruthie’s sister said that she would only go to Auburn if Ruthie could play there as well, and of course the coaches agreed. So Ruthie’s sister went to Auburn with a scholarship, and Ruthie was promised the same when her turn came.
All that changed, however, when it was Ruthie’s turn to get recruited. The coaches told her that while she was a good player, she wasn’t good enough, and that she wouldn’t play until at least her Sophomore year. Ruthie was extremely disappointed, to say the least, but her father told her not to let it get her down. Ruthie said that he stressed the importance of PMA - Positive Mental Attitude - and said that if she really wanted to play, that she should go and try. Her alternative was to play at a smaller local school, where she would most definitely be a star and immediate standout, but Ruthie felt she was up to the challenge of trying to earn a playing spot on her sister’s team. So while she ended up getting a scholarship to Auburn, since they had promised her one when they promised her sister a scholarship, there was no guarantee that she would ever see any court time. Ruthie vowed to practice and work as hard as she could to prepare for the upcoming season, so that she could earn some playing time by her Sophomore year.
Fast forward two years- Ruthie not only got playing time during her Freshman year, but was a starter, three SEC Championships, and two-time runner-up for the National Championship. She didn’t take no for answer, and worked hard to make it impossible for coaches NOT to play her. But the story doesn’t end there.
When it came time to form the 1996 Olympic team, Ruthie felt she had a very good chance of being invited to try outs, however she did not receive an invitation to try out for the team in Denver, Colorado. Discouraged by this set-back, Ruthie talked to her father, and he again asked her what she really wanted to do. Ruthie wanted to be on the Olympic team more than anything, and she felt that she was good enough to make it. So she took all the money she had left at the time, just enough to pay her own way to get to Denver, and began tryouts. Ruthie said that there were plenty of players there that may have been a bit better than her in terms of natural ability, but again, she worked harder and tried harder and when all was said and done, the coaches decided to give her a chance, and she ended up being a starter in 8 games in the 1996 Olympics with a 13 PPG average.
But again, the story gets better! Ruthie had been playing for the WNBA Sacramento Monarchs, and was enjoying a very successful career when she tore her ACL. The doctors did not give her a good prognosis, and she was told that she would most likely need to retire. This was right before the 2000 Olympics, and there was no way that Ruthie was going to miss those games. So she worked on rehabbing her knee, getting back in shape and sharpening her skills…and again helped the US National Team win another gold at the Sydney Olympics. She also continued to play professionally a few more years, despite that knee injury, before retiring in 2002.
Bottom line- Ruthie didn’t sit and wait for things to happen to her, Ruthie made it happen for herself. Despite those setbacks, bumps in the road, and being told she wasn’t good enough, Ruthie persevered and created her own path. Like the vast majority of student athletes, your recruiting story is going to go much like Ruthie’s story - you may not have people calling you and inviting you to visit. You may not find that coaches know your name - yet. But by being PROACTIVE and PERSISTENT, you can and you will make things happen for yourself. We all get discouraged, and we all suffer from setbacks, but the thing that separates us from being a regular Joe athlete and being someone like Ruthie Bolton is perseverance.